My wife
and I have some missionary friends in a remote part of South America. Years
ago, when their five children were very young and unfamiliar with life in “civilized”
Southern California,
they were home on furlough. They told us about an incident that occurred during
their first week here in town.
The day
they arrived, they stopped at a supermarket for some groceries. They parked their
rented car in the lot and the kids, as most kids are inclined to do, started piling
out. One of the kid’s door bumped the car in the next stall. The owners were in
the car and immediately flew into a tirade.
There was
no visible damage - just a bump. Our
friends graciously tried to apologize, explaining that their children were
unfamiliar with parking lot etiquette, but the other couple would not accept their
apologies. They just continued their vulgar criticism of the wild, undisciplined kids,
and the couple's irresponsibility in procreating too many of them. Our friends were
humiliated and embarrassed at the rude behavior their children had just
witnessed.
The
following Sunday in church, the pastor announced the presence of the visiting missionaries
and introduced the family to the congregation. They stood with their children and
turned around to face the people. Right there in the pew behind them was the
couple they had encountered in the parking lot. They smiled politely at them;
the couple sank back with embarrassment.
Sometimes
we think we can get away with our rudeness. We act as though we will never see
that person again, but sometimes we do. We would do better to choose compassion
and understanding rather than crankiness. Your heart
cannot hold contempt and kindness at the same time so choose the one that can serve
you best.
“Do to others as you
would have them do to you.” Luke 6:31
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